WHY IS A CHARACTER COACH NEEDED?
One of the most important roles coaches play in preparing players for competition and life is to give them a chance to develop good character.
We expect a game plan for coaching the X’s and O’s of our sport. What isn’t always clear is how to coach character. Over time we have seen an ever-growing gap develop between coaching the fundamental aspects of a specific sport and the development of quality character. Character Coaches exist to fill this crucial gap in developing the complete athlete.
When considering the role of a Character Coach it is important to know the difference between a Character Coach and a Chaplain. Both roles are critically important but distinctively different. Which role you play with a team is determined by the audience. Keep in mind the differences between a Character Coach and a Team Chaplain. The Character Coach initiative is designed to help get a ‘foot in the door’ with School Administrators, Coaches and athletes by providing an on-going presence with a particular team while passing along strong, character building lessons that are non-religious.
Obviously, our hope and prayer is that these Character Coaches begin to lay a foundation of trust that will eventually open doors for other opportunities such as evangelism and discipleship.
Character Coach
Chaplain
A wide variety of people can serve the people of sport as Character Coaches. One need not be a sport ministry professional to faithfully serve and to significantly impact the lives of coaches and athletes. Among those who could serve as in these roles are:
What does it take to be a Character Coach?
It is critically important for all character coaches to follow some FCA guidelines to protect everyone involved.
Keep in mind the differences between a Character Coach and a Team Chaplain. The Character Coach initiative is designed to help get a ‘foot in the door’ with School Administrators, Coaches and athletes by providing an on-going presence with a particular team while passing along strong, character building lessons.
Obviously, our hope and prayer is that these Character Coaches begin to lay a foundation of trust that will eventually open doors for other opportunities such as evangelism and discipleship.
FCA wants to provide teams with the best-trained, most effective Character Coaches that they can, so we have created a process:
1.Take a relational approach; have a missionary mindset! Do not approach this role with an agenda other than to serve.
2. Focus on people rather than methods and strategies. Give your heart to the coaches and athletes. Be expressive in letting them know you care about them.
3. Don’t talk down to anyone and always be available…you never know what other opportunities may arise by simply being in the right place at the right time.
1. Know the coaches and athletes by name; show a personal interest in them and their families. You will be trusted when you show you care about them.
2. Be present. If possible, drop by practice at least once a week. A short time on the field/court will open hearts and speaks volumes about how much you really care about them. Walk around at practice and speak to anyone and everyone…listening to ways you can best serve them.
3. Be affirming and encouraging. Always look for opportunities to build them up. You might be the only person who tells one of the coaches or athletes that you believe in them.
1. Understand that you are in that position for a reason that is bigger than athletics. Take honor in your role…it is a great responsibility.
2. Be loyal. Never hang around people who constantly criticize the coaches…do not listen to them and do not entertain those conversations.
3. Do not be presumptuous. If the coaches want you on the sidelines or to ride the bus for road games, they will ask you.